Do not wait for time to heal you. It’s a guarantee that time will march on in its perpetual forward motion, but it makes no promise of doing so with you or me or anyone else in mind. It could heal you just as you could win the lottery…or it could not heal you and there you stand with an older and still wounded reflection staring at you in the mirror.
What time “heals” are the things that were minor to begin with, even if they felt monumental at the time. If something still comes up and causes you hurt/grief/remorse/anger/distress and it’s been years/decades/lifetimes since the occurrence? Don’t count on time, my friend. It’s time for you to face yourself and do some work. Otherwise, you’ll be waiting a long long time.